Life Through Ty's Eyes

Work like you don't need money, Love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one's watching.

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The Alabamian: This whole "dependence" thing.

Why do people get all up in arms about how the “government isn’t helping us!”. No government is perfect, especially ours.

Disclaimer: I’m not an expert on politicians in any way. I barely follow it, truthfully.

But seriously. Why do people rely on something so much that they expect it to cater…

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Coming to terms..

 (I ramble a lot and my thoughts dont make complete sense most of the time by the way, so be warned.) 

At this time 3 weeks ago, I was sitting in the dark trying to wrap my head around what all had happened and trying to make sure everyone I knew and loved was ok. Here it is 3 weeks after the storm, all my family and friends are alive and well but I still haven’t really come to terms with everything that has taken place. I still tear up every time I see pictures or watch a youtube clip. 

It’s times like these that I most struggle. It hurts me to the core to see other people hurting. As I look at pictures and hear stories and realize what all some people have lost… i don’t know.. I just want to replace myself with them. I do this with complete strangers even. Why? I dont know. I want to take all their hurt upon myself so they don’t have to deal with it anymore. It kills me to see someone cry and over the past three weeks, there has been a lot of crying. I just want to go to Tuscaloosa and make it all better, but I can’t and it kills me. I know times like these make us stronger but it just hurts so badly. I pray for God to help me and everyone involved in all of this and I know he’s there, but there’s times when, for example, i drive down 15th street and I just feel so alone and helpless. And what makes me irritated at myself through all of this, is how I’m having my own little pity party over here and I was hardly affected by the storm. My apartment was fine, not even a single tree down, my car was fine, physically of course I didn’t have a single scratch, all my family and friends made it out alive, but yet at times I feel as if it was me in Alberta City. Why do I do this to myself? It’s not fair to those that lost everything. I don’t really know where I’m going with this, so I’m just going to stop before it’s a complete mess and doesn’t make any sense at all. 

Just so very thankful for my family and friends. #blessed #WeAreAlabama

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38 things guys wish girls knew

1. Guys are more emotional then you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

3. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-he… method.

6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.

8. Guys don’t care how gorgeous you are, if you’re a *********— Goodbye.

9. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

10. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.

11. Guys are very open about themselves.

12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

14. Guys love you more than you love them.

15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.

16. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”

23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.

24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don’t say you aren’t. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don’t want you to disagree with them.

25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking something.

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

27. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.

31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it.

32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of them.

33. They love it when girls talk about their boobs.

34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or hi

37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

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I don’t pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.